[Language of Leadership] Leadership is Proximity
Leaders! đ The past two weeks were extra special. My mom, Donnaâaka Mother Doveâvisited from Michigan. We shared great dinners, laughed with friends, and had deep, late-night conversations that reminded me of something powerful: Leadership is influence. Nothing more, nothing less. And influence doesnât come from titles or transactions. It comes from proximity. Whether it’s […]
[TAIA]: The Language of Discomfort đ§đ·
Happy Monday Mindset! In August 2010, I packed two bags, boarded a plane to Brazil, and landed in the unknownâlanguage, culture, everything. It was a dream⊠but also a test. I wanted the growth that only discomfort could give. That very day, I met Tatianaâmy now wifeâthrough a mutual friend. She spoke perfect English. I […]
[LL] Leadership Isnât Rank. Itâs Responsibility.
Leaders! đ Last week, Barrett and I hosted a powerful Fit Body mastermind call with our friend and retired Navy SEAL, Randy Hetrickâalso the founder of TRX. He dropped a truth bomb that hit home: âYou canât make them careâyou have to persuade them to care.â That one sentence summarizes the challengeâand the privilegeâof leadership. […]
[TAIA]: Morning Routines Are Not the Goal (Hereâs What Is)
Happy Monday Mindset! I just dropped a video walking you through my morning routine. But hereâs what I didnât say in the videoâand itâs probably the most important lesson. Your morning routine isnât the goal. Itâs the gateway. A good routine doesnât need to look like a scene out of a wellness influencerâs reel. It […]
[LL] Leadership That Wins Warsâand Markets
Leaders! đ Over the past few weeks, weâve broken down the 4-step system of effective leadership. Today, we land the plane with a concept that built the worldâs greatest military and is mission-critical for your business: Decentralized Command. Jocko and the military call it that. I call it Situational Authorityâand itâs a game-changer. Hereâs the […]
[AIYA]: Heavy But Hopeful đđĄ
Happy Monday Mindset, Last week carried a heavy emotional weight. From the remembrance of 9/11, to the school shootings in Colorado, to the random acts of violence, to the tragic assassination of Charlie Kirkâit was a lot to process. đ And while Iâll stay in my lane of mindset and leadership, I canât ignore the […]
[LL] Leadership Lesson: Prioritize and Execute â Or Risk Drowning in the Sand
Leaders! đ If everything is a priority, nothing is. Last week, we covered Jocko Willinkâs second leadership law: Keep it Simple. This week, we unpack the third lawâPrioritize and Execute. I reinforced this with Jockoâs world-famous âGOODâ video. No matter the adversity, a strong leader reframes it and says: Good. Letâs go. But reframing isnât […]
[AIYA]: The One Word That Got Me Running Again
Happy Monday Mindset! Last fall, I was mid-run on the treadmillâmy go-to form of meditationâwhen my legs locked up like a vice. Tightness. A sharp pull. And boomâI was limping off. The body sent bad news. But worse, so did my mind. Because running is where I clear the mental clutter. Where the ideas flow. […]
Language of Leadership: Why Simplicity Is a Leaderâs Superpower
Leaders! đ I recently shared Jocko Willinkâs viral video âGOODââa mindset shift that finds strength in setbacks. Today, we dive into step 2 of his 4 Laws of Combat Leadership: Simple. Sounds easy. But as any business owner knowsâespecially in franchisingâitâs anything but. Business is complicated. Running an international fitness brand across two countries? Add […]
[AIYA]: The Ripple Effect of Mentorship
Happy Monday Mindset! Last week, I had lunch with Diego, the son of my longtime friend and early mentor Brian. It was one of those full-circle moments that made me pause. I met Brian on my 21st birthday in Santa Barbaraâwhat started as a wild weekend turned into a life-changing relationship. He became a mentor […]