Monday Mindset

Happy Monday!

Time is fleeting.

We know this, but we forget. 

That is, until life reminds us.

For me, that reminder came a few weeks ago with the passing of my Brazilian grandmother, Vo Nely.

She was born in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, in the 1930s to Portuguese immigrants. A fiery spirit, faithful to her rosary, Mass, and the “Papa” Pope she adored.

I met her in 2010. 

By then, she’d mellowed some—at least compared to the wild stories Tatiana told me from her youth.

Though she and my blood grandmother never met, never even spoke the same language, their rituals were identical—rosaries, Sunday service, quiet faith. 

When Vo Nely passed, I felt like I lost a piece of both of them.

And that’s the message today:

Life is short.

Beautiful. Brief. Gone in a blink.

As Brad Pitt’s Achilles said in the 2004 Blockbuster Troy:

The gods envy us. They envy us because we’re mortal, because any moment might be our last. Everything is more beautiful because we’re doomed. You will never be lovelier than you are now. We will never be here again”.

The takeaway?

You’ll never be younger than you are right now. 

We’ll never have this moment again.

So whatever you’ve been putting off..

Don’t!

Call your loved one.

Launch the business. 

Book the trip.

Because this life.. 

It’s not a dress rehearsal.

RIP Vo Nely. ❤️

And thank you for the reminder.

Adversity is Your Advantage,

Bryce Henson
CEO, Fit Body 

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Happy Monday!

Today, we focus on the final step of turning adversity to your advantage:

Reframe It!

This is where the magic happens.

You’ve gone through pain.

You’ve grown.

You’ve reflected.

Now you connect the dots.

Now you look back at that adversity and say:

“It didn’t break me. It built me.”

This is deeply human.

We are wired to find meaning in our suffering.

It’s why there are thousands of religions across history.

We need to explain the pain.

We need to turn chaos into purpose.

And the way we do that?

We reframe.

We don’t say, “I’m glad it happened.”

We say, “I’m grateful for what it gave me.”

We don’t say, “That wasn’t hard.”

We say, “That was hard—and it made me stronger.”

You begin to look back on your darkest days and see them differently.

You stop seeing tragedy.

You start seeing transformation.

And that is the power of this mindset.

“Adversity isn’t the obstacle. It’s the initiation.”

It’s the beginning of the best version of you.

And when you learn to embrace it, endure it, reflect on it, and reframe it…

You don’t just become stronger.

You become a leader people can trust.

You become a leader who inspires change.

You become a leader who can lead others through fire—because you’ve already walked through your own.

Adversity is Your Advantage,

Bryce Henson
CEO, Fit Body 

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Happy Monday!

After you embrace it, reflecting on the adversity is your 3rd move to Turn Adversity Into Your Advantage.

After all, endurance comes with perspective.

But you don’t get perspective automatically.

You have to be intentional and create space for it.

This is the step most people skip—because we live in a go-go-go world.

But here’s the truth:

Growth without reflection is just repetition.

You have to slow down and ask:

• What worked?
• What didn’t?
• What did I learn?
• What pain point showed up again—and why?

For me, here are a few ways I reflect:

• Journal
• Therapy with Dr. Kevin
• Quarterly EOS reviews
• Quiet time

That’s how I reconnect to my mission—and recommit to growth.

Reflection is needed, and it brings clarity. 

And that brings us to the final move that I will share next week…

Adversity is Your Advantage,

Bryce Henson
CEO, Fit Body 

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Happy Monday!

We learned the 4 moves on how to Turn Adversity Into Your Advantage.

And that the 2nd part is to “Endure it.”

Enduring it requires growth.

Within this growth phase, 3 practices have helped me and will do the same for you.

The 3rd?

Embrace Feedback

Even with a guide—even with a plan—success is never a straight line.

You’ll make progress.

Then fall back.

You’ll get better.

Then get humbled.

That’s where feedback comes in.

Feedback is the mirror that shows you who you are—and who you’re becoming.

And the key to receiving feedback is this:

You must first embrace your ego.

Let it fall away.

Because defensiveness is the enemy of growth.

Here’s how I use feedback:

• I invite it—from coaches, from my team, from my mentors
• I reflect on it—from my behavior, my gut, my journal
• I normalize it—so my team knows it’s safe to tell me the truth

The shorter your feedback loop?

The faster you grow.

And the more you grow?

The more you can endure!

Adversity is Your Advantage,

Bryce Henson
CEO, Fit Body 

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Happy Monday!

We learned the 4 moves on how to Turn Adversity Into Your Advantage.

And that the 2nd part is to “Endure it.”

Enduring it requires growth.

Within this growth phase, 3 practices have helped me and will do the same for you.

The 2nd?

Seek Guidance

Once you know what you need to do—find someone who’s already done it.

Tony Robbins says, “Success leaves clues.”

You don’t need to reinvent everything.

You just need to be humble enough to ask for help.

For me, I’ve had many guides:

• My 12-step sponsor 
• Bedros as a business coach 
• Adam, my fitness mentor 
• My mother-in -aw, Cristina, and Mara teaching me Brazilian Portuguese
  

• Mike Ganino coaching my communication

I’ve learned this:

A guide gives you a blueprint— but they also give you accountability.

And if you want to endure adversity, you need both.

Adversity is Your Advantage,

Bryce Henson
CEO, Fit Body 

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Happy Monday!

Today, we are going to pause on the Adversity is Your Advantage implementation framework.

Instead, I want to honor the day.

Here in the States, it’s Memorial Day. 🇺🇸

It’s a day to honor our fallen heroes. 

Yes, I hope you enjoy the day off from work with some family time. 

However, I hope you don’t forget the meaning of it.

The hard truth about life?

Freedom is not free.

It needs to be protected.

Throughout history, the lack of freedom is the norm, not the exception.

This is what today, we honor the men and women who lost their lives defending the freedom we enjoy.

My humble request and mindset message is not to let their adversity, which is our advantage, go in vain.

Happy Memorial Day. 🇺🇸

Adversity is Your Advantage,

Bryce Henson
CEO, Fit Body 

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Happy Monday!

We learned the 4 moves on how to Turn Adversity Into Your Advantage.

And that the 2nd part is to “Endure it.”

Enduring it requires growth.

Within this growth phase, 3 practices have helped me and will do the same for you.

The first?

Cultivate Curiosity

Curiosity is the starting point of all growth.

It begins when we stop pretending we know everything—and start asking:

• What don’t I know here?
• What’s working, and what’s not?
• What challenges am I still avoiding?
• Who could help me get better?

In my case, I got curious about alcoholism back in 2016 after a horrible experience that took my best friend away.

And that curiosity showed me what needed to change.

The problem?

I didn’t know how to do it.

The solution?

I got curious for a solution, which led me to the next move that I will share next week.

Adversity is Your Advantage,

Bryce Henson
CEO, Fit Body 

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Happy Monday!

We learned the 4 moves on how to Turn Adversity Into Your Advantage.

Today, I’m going to hit on #2:

Endure it!

How do you do this?

Once you’ve embraced the truth, now comes the real test:

Can you stay in it long enough to grow through it?

This is where self-mastery is forged.

This is where self-leadership begins.

Because once you’ve got that burn, your anti-mission that gives you a paradigm shift, you’re holding something powerful:

Discipline.

And that’s what allows you to endure.

Enduring doesn’t mean surviving.

It means choosing challenges. 

Proactively.

It means picking up the adversity you’ve been ignoring and saying:

“I’m coming for you this time.”

That’s how strength is built.

This isn’t a one-time step—it’s a loop.

The more you grow, the more you can handle.

And the more you handle, the more you’re able to lead.

So, how do you build endurance?

There are 3 practices I use again and again.

I will share them next week!

Adversity is Your Advantage,

Bryce Henson
CEO, Fit Body 

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Happy Monday!

Last week, we learned the 4 moves on how to Turn Adversity Into Your Advantage.

Today, I’m going to hit on #1:

Embrace It!

How do you do this?

To truly change, you must hit rock bottom.

Sads bad, which it is.

However, rock bottom is a gift.

It doesn’t feel like it in the moment, but it’s the catalyst for change.

The starting point of turning adversity into your advantage…

Is to be willing to actually feel it.

To stop hovering, avoiding, explaining, or defending—and finally say:

“Enough is enough.”

Here’s what I’ve learned:

You don’t change when it gets hard.

You change when it gets too hard.

When you hit that moment of internal pain that forces clarity.

And here’s the process I’ve lived:

You hit rock bottom.

That pain creates the burn—your anti-mission.

The thing you’re running from—and the reason you won’t go back.

And then… You can finally surrender the ego.

You stop trying to prove.

You start trying to change.

For me, my self-leadership rock bottom moment came in front of a mirror—when I decided to stop drinking in December of 2016.

That was the burn.

That was the anti-mission:

Break the bloodline of alcoholism.

And from that moment forward, I saw everything differently.

It wasn’t logical.

It was emotional.

And it gave me the fuel I needed to grow.

I finally embraced the truth I’d been avoiding.

And the second I let go of my ego, that’s when the growth loop began.

So ask yourself:

“What change do I already know I need to make… but I’ve been avoiding?”

Because that internal conflict?

That’s your rock bottom whispering.

And when you embrace it, you move from stuck… to free.

Adversity is Your Advantage,

Bryce Henson
CEO, Fit Body

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Happy Monday!

Check this out..

I’ve spent the last 18 months reflecting on my 4 decades on this planet with a project top of mind.

There’s been plenty of good, bad, and ugly.

With reflection, 1 guiding principle in my life has been to adopt a mindset that adversity is my advantage.

Why?

Because it is.

This mindset has allowed me to turn tragedies into blessings, which is what I want for you!

As I did the work, I broke down the path into 4 distinct moves.

Here they are, and I will break them down in the coming 4 weeks so you can do the same. 

1. Embrace Adversity – Rock Bottom is a gift. It’s the catalyst for change.
2. Endure Adversity – Self Mastery creates growth and the ability to endure.
3. Reflect on Adversity –  Reflection happens after every growth loop, which creates perspective.
4. Reframe Adversity – With growth and reflection, you can connect the dots and reframe your adversity as your advantage.

Adversity is Your Advantage,

Bryce Henson
CEO, Fit Body 

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